Learn about four fantastic sex tips in this article for improving your sex life. These are especially useful for those in long term relationships but can be used by anyone, even very casual relationships.
1. Put the romance back into your life. With longer term relationships things can go stale and the romance can often vanish. This can affect the levels of intimacy and appreciation for each other as lovers, so it is a great idea to add a bit of romance.
This can include anything from a romantic dinner date, a home cooked candle lit meal, leaving roses on the bed for your lover to discover, to any number of small gifts and gestures.
In fact a little romantic gesture rather than a gift is more powerful, for example, giving your lover a foot massage as an entrance to foreplay and sex.
2. A great way to spice up your sex life is to simply have sex in rooms other than the bedroom. Try the following experiment for one month. Do not have sex in the bedroom for the entire month and make sure to have sex in every other room in the house.
Often just a simple change of location in where you have sex will add a lot of renewed excitement to your sex life. So try the kitchen, living room, dining room, hallway and bathroom.
3. In addition to having sex in different rooms have sex at different times to when you usually do it. Having spontaneity in terms of when you have sex will add another element of freshness to your sex life that will pump some extra excitement into it.
For example, instead of waiting until 9 in the evening give your partner oral sex before they go to work in the morning. You can combine this with making them breakfast too and really make their day!
4. No matter how conservative you are it’s important to be willing to try new and different things to add some much needed spice to your sex life. This can range from a new sexual position and watching an erotic movie during foreplay, to roleplaying and using sex toys.
It’s important to know that when trying out new things sometimes it might feel silly and you won’t really get into it, but with other things it can be a major turn on and you would have never known it until you tried it out. So don’t be scared to learn new things and experiment.